So today I feel like talking about being polite especially in the context of ‘speaking or talking to other people’. I’m not sure whether you guys had experienced about this situation before but throughout my life, there are hmm quite a number of time where I did or intend to do something good for someone and instead of getting good comments from that person, he/she actually gave a hateful or bad remarks. Get it? For example, you’re driving home and you feel like eating mcd and you bought extra for your housemates because you remember she mentioned that she wanted to eat mcd few days ago, or you just feel like buying for her for no reason. However, instead of appreciating your efforts and thoughts, she actually scolded you like “why didn’t informed me earlier if not I didn’t eat just now” yedda yedda. Instead of him/her thanking you for that, you get scolded?
What kind of nonsense is that?
I mean let’s face it, I’m not fishing for compliments or asking people to praise my good deeds. Just accept it with open heart and if you feel like thankful or anything, just say thank you. Isn’t it that hard?
I’m kinda experiencing it now. But I’ll try to be positive and chill about it. I want to think that the words actually came from a good place, its just that some people are not good at expressing themselves. Yeah.
If you’re reading this, I just want to remind you guys (and myself too) that; words matter. And by no means, you or other people should devalue or give negative remarks for your kindness. Or if you’re the person receiving it, be mindful of what you say. You could hurt your friend or in the end,she will think like oh you know what I wont do anything good to you next time. Yeah. So be kind okay.
That’s all.
Good day!
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