To begin with, I have a habit of eating fast, not in the gelojoh manner, it's just my friends and I, we have this habit of not talking when we eat and you know just treasure the food in front of you. Plus I thought it's kind of good to show some respect to rezeki. Not that we get serious all the time when there's food served in front of us, no obviously we are not that mannered lol okay but usually we do all the talking either before or after the food is served to us. So because of that, I usually finish my food faster than other people. I don't find it like a big problem ke apa since if I habis makan cepat, I'll do the waiting and vice versa if I habis makan lambat. The fact that I eat faster than other girls, doesn't make me less of a girl. I don't think that it's such an issue to the extend I have to change the way I eat, the way I speak to be considered as a girl. In the end isn't it too tiring to be pretentious all the time?
The same thing applies to dressing. Just because I don't prefer wearing baju kurung or long skirts and feminine dresses, I am still a lady though. The fact that I'm comfortable with shirts and trousers over everything should not bother you right? It's kind of annoying that some people are so quick in judging other people yet failed to notice his/her own flaws.
In the end, well I admit that I'm a little bit different but that doesn't make me less of a person or less of a lady. Everyone is different and as the years passed by we all develop our own styles and preferences. As long as the person himself/herself is happy with it, I don't think that we have the right to concern much.
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