#6

You can't change people

I've been living for so many years with the idea that if I really put my efforts, I might be able to change or re-shape someone the way I want his/her to be. But seriously after so many years of experimenting, I discovered that you can never change someone, ever. So get over the notion that you can change a guy or a girl because it won't work. People are born with  different styles so it's quite impossible for you to change that style to match with your standard.  You can't change someone plus it is unfair for them at the first place. 

You might be able to change his/her style or his sense of fashion or his choice of food or his favorite restaurants but deep inside, you can't ultimately change someone at their cores. They might change when you are around but most of the time they'll get back to their habit when you're away. Changes are good of course but they have to come from the person himself, the people around can only advise, support or trigger the intention but the action begins with the belief that "I must change for myself". You can bring the horse to the water but you can't force it to drink remember? 

Something I learn about people, if they do it once they'll do it again. Awas.